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Title: Nice guys/girls finish last, but they finish strong.
Category: full of life
Blog Entry: This blog is dedicated to all the nice guys and girls out there who think they will never find their soulmates because they think they are too nice. I had a conversation with one of my friends last night. She's going through some tough times with her relationship. Long story short, her boy friend cheated on her before and who knows how many times. He treats her bad and he's 25 but very immature. He has 2 DUI's and no stable job. Her, on the other side, a 27 year old elementary school teacher, sells jewelries on the side, also bar-tending as well. So many of her friends have told her he's not good for her and she deserves better, but she doesn't have the courage to break up with him. She feels she still cares for him. I'm sure this may sound like yourself at some point in life. You keep hearing your friends telling you the famous saying over and over again,"nice guys/girls finish last!" This belief has turned so many nice guys and girls into jerks. Therefore, I'm here to tell you guys that it's not completely true!What people don't realize or refuse to realize is it might be a good thing that your relationship with that person is not going to or didn't workout. For instance, before making the decision for a purchase, how much do we shop around for a better deal? Many times. And a lot of times we end up pretty satisfied with our decision. Even though there are times we are not happy with our purchases, we often tell ourselves at least we know what to do next time. So by shopping around we filter out the ones we don't want. Basically, my point is relationships are like shopping or anything else, we are searching for the best deal either consciously or unconsciously. Look around and see how many people around you have found their soulmates either sooner or later? Most people do find their soulmates in life, and I'm sure it took them a long time to find that person and at some point their life they felt the same way as you and I did. So finding someone just matters of time. I have to say this again, everything happens for a reason. If you believe you are broken hearted by someone didn't treat you right and you will never find the one, think again, maybe there's someone up there that's looking out for you. Believe in yourself! one day you will find that person. Don't become someone you are not. You know you are a nice person deep down. Who you are is going to attract who you want to be with. You might finish last, but you will finish strong! Don't ever settle for less because your soulmates are searching for you hard...Sunny ReboundersWorld-it's time to bounce back!