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Title: Be Careful what you desire in Life !!
Category: in love
Blog Entry: Aloha I hope everyone is having a Blessed Day !!   I am Blessed !!Many people in Life are focusing on being Happy and "making" their Lover or spouse Happy.  You may be able to attract Happiness for a short period of time but after a while You will attract the opposite . Yes, Sadness . Your emotions will go from highs and lows based on your perceptions.Alot of people are searching for" peace of mind" ! Again you may be able to have peace of mind both internally and in your outside world but Just like Happiness over time Guess What ?  Yes, You will attract the opposite both internally and on the outside world . You will have internal conflict and attract resistance in the physical world.Now let's briefly discuss Fear . Fear is simply an emotion that there will be more negatives than positives in the future -more pain than pleasure. If you truly hate something ( see more   negatives than positives  to a person , place or thing) that will run your life also to the degree that you hate it. What ever you hate in life will repeat itself until you learn to Love it !!  Fear and Guilt will also Run your life !!Guilt is simply a lopsided perception that there were more negatives than positives in the past. Most people are thinking and saying "Man, I just have to stay positive" or they tell their friend "Just be and Stay Positive !There is a solution to ALL the Above !!      UNCONDITIONAL LOVE !!!Unconditional LOVE for yourself and Others !! Unconditional Love will remove the Ego and allow you to Live in the Present with a state of Gratitude and Appreciation !! What ever you love in Life and Are grateful for will expand !!  If you truly Love yourself Unconditionally and Love your spouse  unconditionally You will set the Strongest platform for a Very healthy and Balanced Relationship !!  It will allow You to surrender to the unknown in a very powerful way !!  Also , You will not  have Any expectations that will result in "failure" or a feeling of disappointment.  You will be able to see the benefits of ALL events that occur in your life and balance it out to a state of Love and Gratitude.You will attract new people and opportunities based on your new vibrational energy !!When in any relationship If you have unconditional Love for yourself and the Others involved there is no Need or Desire to Control !You simply Live and Love in the moment.  LOVE it , Live it and Be it !!Relationships should be fun and inspiring !! You are there to both support and challenge.  You are on the same TEAM !! - You should not be competing !!Relationships are designed  to teach you to Love parts of yourself that you are  not currently loving.  When the Positive and negative come together they simply result in Love !!So what people are truly desiring in Life is Not Happiness or Peace of mind but Simply to Be Loved for who they TRULY ARE !!For more on this Please Visit www.ThankGodI.com and www.Drdemartini.com  Have a Blessed Night!  ALOHA and Love, Tom Passerella