2001, Blade Runner, Alien, Airplane, Barcelona, Christmas Story, The Usual Suspects, Rashomon, Star Wars 3,4,5,6, Godfather I & II, Gregory's Girl & Local Hero, Bulletproof Monk (because of the most sensual martial arts scene in history), Catwoman, Batman Begins, The Matrix (and not for the obvious reasons), The Truman Show (closer)

REM, Billy Joel, Rachmaninoff, Beethoven, Miles Davis, Bob Dylan, Neil Young, the Who, Dire Straits, Prince, Dave Brubeck, George Gerschwin, Fleetwood Mac, Johann Sebastian Bach, Talking Heads, Blondie, Big Audio Dynamite, Don Henley

Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy / Spider Robinson's Callahan Crosstime Saloon series / Rocket Boys / Carlos Castenada's Journey to Ixtlan / Ken Kesey's One flew over the cuckoo's nest. David McCullough's The Great Bridge / Colleen McCullough's First Man in Rome Series / Schindler's List / Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged / Aasimov's Twelve Tales / Janet Evanovich's Stephanie Plum mysteries

Mid-40s male with live-in GF. Visually-impaired, hearing-impaired, and according to my GF, stylistically impaired. I am a freelance web-developer working for Sunny. I've been working very hard to make his vision for Love Detour become reality. More than just a new look-and-feel, I truly hope this website will help you find the love you seek.

Intelligent, offbeat, quirky people and conversations. Intelligence is big. Saying something surprising. Asking questions that makes the Rabbi cross his eyes. Wealth as freedom to do what you want to do, and to know what you want to do. Justice. Making the unfair more fair. Being in a group or moment where I lose myself and can stop being self-conscious in the midst of others. Unconventional thinking, adventure. The idea that at 45 you are entering the 2nd third of life and let the next great adventure begin.

Cruelty. People who don't think for themselves. People who obstruct where people walk. People who cut in front of me or block me. Complacency, smugness. Really bad smelling people. People who commit war crimes. Any female indicted for war crimes, please do not apply. If you were indicted but not found guilty, then lets talk.

Pathetic, dysfunctional, pathe & dysfunction mostly my own. I've stepped out of the Relationship game, seeking other ways of connection